A long time ago it was the books.
Then (and still) it was Creative Memories.
And now… Mary Kay. (How many of you have ever had a four year old son who can not only spell Mary Kay, but also recognize it?)
Here’s the thing. I signed up with Mary Kay because I like the products and I wanted the discount. Now that I am involved with it, I am ready to go full force.
But I waver.
The scrapbooking thing hasn’t been super profitable for me for a few reasons:
1.I never saw it as a big money maker– just wanted to get my stuff at cost
2. Not everybody scrapbooks. Some people have a negative association with scrapbooking. Many that do scrapbook don’t like Creative Memories
3. I don’t know. I’m boring? I get really LOW sales at my CM parties.
(I love the products by the way, feel free to order directly from my website and have it sent to you.)
So I love the CM stuff and I don’t want to quit. But I love Mary Kay too. And I get a bigger discount/comission.
Here is my problem: I have high expectations and I fear failure.
Part of me is optimistic, thinking "everyone has a face," "no one has ever said they don’t like Mary Kay– they usually love it" "Mary Kay parties are way fun," "Bigger commission means same low sales get bigger rewards."
The other part of me is like, "you haven’t been successful yet, why would it happen for you now?" "People are burnt out on all your little ‘businesses’" "You’re still boring, you’ll be just as boring at this."
I keep waffling between being really scared and monstrously excited. Why is this?
I know what it is like in this type of system. Yet I find it totally valid, and know that others have made it work for them. I don’t even want to make a lot of money, I just want a consistent and steady business.
Am I crazy?
Any thoughts?



Good for you! I would never join an MLM or a party planning company, I can’t because of the hubby and his business and I just don’t have the drive. Good luck in your new indeaver.
Comment by Erin — January 8, 2007 @ 5:20 pm
Do it to it lady!! you can always brighten up boring! Start singing your presentations LOL No really though I hope you totally go for it. Are you allowed to have sales from other states or is that imposing on the rep here in Cally??
Comment by JD — January 11, 2007 @ 6:08 am
You know you will always be my Mary Kay lady, Stephanie.
Comment by daring one — January 12, 2007 @ 7:10 am
Use your earnings to buy income producing assets. That’s the secret of the rich. Then I can quit my job and spend all my time making software, games, comics, animation, etc. we can finally afford that house by the lake, take lots of family vacations, yada, yada.
Comment by Steph — January 16, 2007 @ 8:12 am
I have no opinion whatsoever on the different business adventures, but I can totally picture it in my mind how you would sell your wares..remember the cooking class we took during Summer 2003 at BYU and you making your chocolate mousse and its accompanying video? Well that is how I picture it all. Good Luck!
Comment by Elizabeth — January 19, 2007 @ 5:23 am
I am so very proud of you and can totally relate to all of your comments. We are all afraid of failure, but that is why we have the support of those who love us. Fear of failure is the biggest reason why people don’t grow and become successful. If we can get rid of our fear, I believe we can do anything. I am working on this as well. Pick yourself up every day and say “I am prosperous.” Positive affirmations along with prayer DO WORK MIRACLES. I Love you, Mom
Comment by Mom — February 3, 2007 @ 5:45 pm