The children insisted on candy the other day. Feeling generous, I gave them both a whopping two skittles each. Sugar started tantruming and demanding more. A more experienced Engineer, sat back and watched.
me: Okay, then give them back.
Sugar: waaaaahhhh! I want more skibbles!
me:I already gave you two, but if you’re unhappy I’ll have them back.
Sugar: waaaahhhhh! I want more skibbles!
me: Sugar, how would you feel if you gave me a present and I said, "waaaaahhhh! I want more!" Would you be sad?
Sugar (making pouty sad face): Uh-huh. (pause) I want more skibbles! WAAAAAHHHH!
me: You are making me so sad.
Engineer: I didn’t make you sad! I just ate my skittles!
Sugar: waaaaaahhhhh!!!!!
How often do we do this as grown-ups? How often do we receive bounteous blessing from our Heavenly Father, and rather than being thankful and content, we whine and ask for more? Sugar didn’t need the skittles, nor did I need to give them to her. I wanted to give her more, but more wouldn’t have necessarily been good for her. And I definitely wasn’t going to give her more after she threw that fit. And yet she was getting something special that she asked for, and didn’t usually get and she was unhappy with it.
I know I do this in my life. I have so many blessings, and few of them are actual "needs" and yet sometimes I still want more. Sometimes I neglect to be thankful for what I have. Sometimes I forget that Heavenly Father is in charge, and he wants to bless me, but he does it in the way that is best for me. Sometimes I am a whiny three year old.
And that’s all I have to say about that.



thought-provoking post. i feel like in my communications w/my heavenly father, i too often focus on the negatives (just like you were saying with Sugar) instead of feeling blessed and noticing all the good things i have.
Comment by emily — October 3, 2007 @ 5:18 pm
lol — i just had to tell you that your sidebar ad is for 100% real columbian coffee.
gave me a giggle.
Comment by emily — October 3, 2007 @ 5:19 pm
Oh, I like this analogy. I think I may have to work it into my religious education lesson tomorrow morning.
Comment by T with Honey — October 5, 2007 @ 1:51 pm